Wendy Vargas
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Wendy Vargas

I am 55 years old, a Registered Nurse, married for 30 years. I live in the Great North Woods region of New Hampshire. My nearest neighbor is 14 miles away.
I suppose I have had a perfectly ordinary life. Great childhood, did well in school, love my husband, get along with my adult children and extended family. And I'm very grateful for all of that

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my VN interview

How did you get to where you are now?

My life has just seemed to flow from one thing to another. I can't take credit, it seems that I have been blessed. Sometimes I wonder what it would have been like to do things differently.

How do you see yourself differently now than you did 10 years ago?

I am more at ease with myself now. I am less self-conscious. I see myself as just one person among many. I focus less on myself . Bottom line---What you see is what you get.

a postcard to my younger self

Relax---it's all good!

my role models

My cat. She lives entirely in the moment, accepts what is and doesn't waste a lot of time worrying. She is unafraid to show her love. If she doesn't like you, she simply avoids you and doesn't feel the need to argue, or try to bring you around to her way of thinking. She is an excellent judge of people. She doesn't worry about her weight or how she appears to others. She just is.

my posts

What’s up?

OK, what happened to the VN Community?  I’m sure there’s a very good reason for this change – but frankly, it’s too time-consuming and annoying to be jumping all over the place…

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Am I over the hill?

I have a new coworker, a really nice woman, 20 years younger but very friendly.  I’m training her, so we’ve been going to lunch and breaks together, which is fine, except that…

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Who are the heroes?

Today I saw a newsclip about a 16 year old boy who called 911 when he saw an elderly neighbor who had fallen in her yard and couldn’t get up — and…

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my comments

Response to: new site format

Response to: Disrespectful son

Response to: I have saved a special video to watch tonight with my husband.

Response to: Seven Spiritual Laws of Success by Deepak Chopra

Response to: Defense of Marriage Act