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1 year of separation and no sex!

Posted in family & relationships, love & sex on May 20, 2011

The one year anniversary of my separation has now happened – I expect divorce papers soon.  I still feel so incredibly lonely.  I am also extremely angry at the thought that he…

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To keep the house or let it go

Posted in home & garden on October 30, 2010

My husband and I are separated and he has now filed for bankruptcy. I must also do so or assume all of our joint debt – which is quite a bit since…

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Is there life during separation?

Posted in family & relationships on August 28, 2010

My husband and I are now separated – it has been 3 months.  He says it is because of my gambling and I say it is because he replaced me long ago…

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Brazilian wax

Posted in fashion & beauty on July 08, 2010

Yes, my husband talked me into going to a naturist/nudist resort.  No dress code but not a lot of pubic hair (on the women).  Advice?  on hair removal?

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my comments

Response to: Are Separate Bedrooms The Answer?

Comment posted on March 11, 2011 at 2:01 am:
"No to separate bedrooms, that was the beginning of the end for my marriage.  This is a temporary condition.  I urge you both to see a doctor together, both a physical doctor and a marriage counsellor, to see all sides of what is happening a..." (read comment)

Response to: Surviving divorce after 50: 4 steps back to the real you

Comment posted on December 27, 2010 at 9:15 pm:
"An update to this post done in May 2010.  In June 2010, I discovered unprotected emails on our computer desktop - emails between my husband and another woman with he professing to love her truly and deeply with all his heart.  It turns out ..." (read comment)

Response to: To keep the house or let it go

Comment posted on November 6, 2010 at 2:42 pm:
"I have spoken to so many people this week and the one advisor tells me I may make too much money for bankruptcy.  It is interesting how my separated husband can walk away from everything filing for bankruptcy and now I am liable for ev..." (read comment)

Response to: To keep the house or let it go

Comment posted on October 31, 2010 at 7:47 pm:
"wow, lots of good info, thank you and you are so right about the lots of folks - I can't thank all my friends enough that have stood by me.  I have also found vibrant nation to have much good advice.  I am not sure I can take anymore stress..." (read comment)

Response to: Out in the Meat Market Again: A Warning

Comment posted on October 28, 2010 at 1:49 am:
"I am newly separated after 37 yrs of marriage - he was dating long before the separation unbeknownst to me.  So yes, I would like to have a relationship to feel that I am attractive to someone.  Needy, yes.  But sure would like to have..." (read comment)