Try vibrator use as foreplay instead

There’s a stigma associated with vibrator use, as if it’s something only lonely women enjoy in the peace of darkened bedrooms. Under the sheets, with the nearest man 20 or so miles away. But many couples enjoy using vibrators together, and a nread more »

Is the best vibrator the most innovative design?

If you believe that awards really do count, then the Revel Body may be the best vibrator for you.read more »

Sister in law getting too friendly with my friends

Been married for over 40 years and have had a “good” relationship with my sister in law per say. I have had my moments with her at times when she periodically decides to punch me under the belt. Several years ago I invited her to joread more »

Day 1 of No Negativity Challenge / channeling Watermusic

well…..i made it until about 6:30p.m. my separated husband had been out of the country for 2 weeks. My oldest son was still home for Easter break so I invited the husband to have dinner with the kids and I. As usual the table wasread more »

My mother

She’s a teensy sweet old lady who hides in her house, unhappy and lonely. She’s perfectly healthy physically, but wastes her days infantalizing and fretting over everyone she loves. I’m fifty-five, my brother sixty-three, and nread more »

Garden as a Concept

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A Teacher Is … The Power Of One

In 1960 I was in the 6th grade at P.S. 90 Elementary School in Queens, NY. My teacher’s name was Mr. Zimmler. He was the first male teacher I ever had and to say that he was unique was an understatement. Mr. Zimmler was a short, stread more »


I am greatly inspired by Watermusic’s “No Negativity” chllenge. I am 52, separated and getting divorced after 26 years of marriage. I moved to a small town 7 years ago for the husband’s job and have not found quality work. read more »

Politics Killing our Friendship

My best friend and I met in college and have known each other for over 40 years.  We have much in common, but our political perspectives are polar opposites.  She used to send me Democratic-bashing stuff all the time–hateful, angry, name-read more »

Feeling Abandoned

My daughter, age 30, will be getting married soon. We lived together all of her life until our lease was up a couple of months ago.  She and her fiance moved to their new apartment prior to the wedding, and I have a small studio apartment less thread more »